Friday, May 27, 2016

life as five

me and my babes!
Here goes a lightning post - how fast can I get caught up on the last 2 weeks and get to bed? Hm. Well we've settled into a more comfortable place at home after a first week full of adjustments - adjustments to new sleep routines, feeding routines and demands (ouch), balancing acts, and prioritizing (eating over blogging, feeding children over showering etc.). I am SO thankful that Steve is around, especially in this first semi-chaotic period where I'm just getting used to being on call 24/7 for the newest member of our family of five (!!!). Steve's parents were a HUGE help - they stayed for a week and did all of the meals, and I really was wondering how we'd get dinner on the table with just the two of us, outnumbered as we are. BUT... it hasn't been that bad and no one is starving or losing weight and I haven't even had to feed people cereal for dinner yet (as promised, "once the baby comes"). Jordan is settling into a semi-predictable rhythm, feeding every 3 hours during the day and every 3-4 hours at night, and is quite the easy going baby I have to say. He'll fuss a little bit when he's gassy or needs to poop but is otherwise very calm and quiet (yay!) - though Hendrik insists that he makes way too much noise whenever he is watching TV (Steve and I have no idea what he's talking about). I'm getting a nap in almost every day and am clocking around 6 hours of interrupted sleep a night (I think) which is really not too bad (does it sound bad? probably), and am feeling semi-recovered from a short and very intense labour and delivery. 

A LOVES being a big sister!

After last Monday's 41 week appointment I had an induction booked - for Wednesday May 19th - and I sure was hoping that I wouldn't make it until then... but things weren't looking good. I'd had contractions here and there throughout week 41 but nothing ever materialized, so when I had a few intermittent contractions on Monday afternoon post-appointment, I wasn't convinced that anything was actually happening. Plus these happenings were only happening when I was standing up - so I really wasn't convinced that going to bed would do anything to move anything along BUT it did. I woke Steve up around 12:30AM having timed a few contractions and we decided to head for the hospital. By 1:00 we were on the road and by 1:05 we were waiting at a railroad crossing waiting for a middle of the night train to get out of the way (really). Thankfully I wasn't in the throes of intense labour (yet), but I was approaching that uncomfortable stage and wanted confirmation that it was going to happen - and not dissipate the way they'd had earlier in the week. Longer story short, we were admitted to Victoria General (not sent home!), I had my water broken, suffered through some awful contractions (awful awful awful) before asking for an epidural; "too late!" said the nurse, "NOT TOO LATE" said me - and the meds kicked in for two contractions and not much pushing before Jordan was born at 4:48, not even four hours after we arrived at the hospital. I was relieved to have the delivery over with, to have a healthy baby, and to have made it through the birth of another child. And now we're home and getting used to life as five... It's all good!
first bath time at home
beautiful flowers from a friend!
dad and the crew

Sunday, May 22, 2016

welcome baby!

last family of four pic - en route to the park
This post is going to be verrrry picture heavy, as I'm out of time to write/post - baby is calling! I'll get another post up soon with more updates and information on baby's arrival. Everyone is adjusting well to life as a family of five, and despite the minimal sleep and maximum demands on mom (and dad too), we are beyond happy and grateful for the incredible gifts in our lives. Love love love love love (love love love love)....



love
i LOVE this picture - quiet curiosity from J's big brother

there were TONS of outtakes, as the kids had their hands on the cameras; here are a few, plus an afternoon rock painting activity and a mob of kids interested in Hendrik's baby brother after school later this week

Thursday, May 12, 2016

40 weeks plus 3 days...

Baby is late! Or right on time - right on his time. I ask the kids (and myself) on a daily basis, "when will your baby brother get here?" and Alana responds astutely with "when he's ready." I'm telling him that I'm ready, that we're ready, that he can be ready any time now (listen to your mother!)... but I keep lasting through the night and waking up to new, beautiful spring days. Because I laboured through the night with both Hendrik and Alana, I'm wondering if having a baby on a good night's sleep will be ... different? Not easier - but different. I had some contractions on Tuesday and really really thought it was happening - but then nothing. Nothing! And since then... nothing! So I think I should just stop thinking about it (easier said than done) and maybe make a solid series of plans and THEN maybe he'll be on his way. I have another appointment booked for Monday, and if we get there then an induction will be booked - though hopefully we won't get that far.

listening to baby's gurgles (or mine!)
two bigs and a little
loves!
this class pic came home with Alana the other day... adorbs!

Both Hendrik and Alana gave me lovely Mother's Day cards (happy belated Mother's Day!) on Sunday, but Hendrik's really takes the cake:


The card itself is beautiful (yellow with flowers and jewels - what more could I want?!), and he was very proud that he made it AND that I loved it so much. I can't remember what we did - park, bike ride, lots of time outside I think - it was a great day. Hendrik is excited about starting baseball this weekend (Alana has to wait another two weeks for her "Little Sluggers" to start), as he's on a team with three of his friends for eight weeks of T-ball. In a few weeks soccer will start and before we know it summer will be here! We're still trying to figure out when we're doing what, but I think staying close to home is on the agenda for most of July and August. Big news that I am SUPER excited about (did I mention this already?) is that my sister Sarah is coming to visit for a few days in early June and I can't WAIT! She hasn't seen our place and she'll get to meet baby and I am just so excited to hang out with her for a few days... yay!

Stay tuned for baby news - maybe he's waiting for Friday the 13th? We'll see!

Thursday, May 5, 2016

odds and ends, pre-baby



Some of my favourite people were in town this past weekend, passing through on their way from Brasil! to good old Gatineau (well, Ottawa actually), and we spent Saturday night chatting and catching up - and Sunday morning at Cora's with an even bigger, finer group of people. The kids had a table all to themselves (a first), and were for the most part well behaved. Hendrik and Alana ordered the usual, a full waffle piled with whipped cream, strawberries and custard, and demolished everything. There were a few odd conflicts (boy vs. girls), and our attention was divided; I prefer dining out without children.


Hours before Freddie and Shanti arrived on Saturday we were downstairs getting the bed made while the kids were jumping off the futon into different "portals"; Alana's was the unicorn portal which, of course, took her to unicorn land, and Hendrik's was the dinosaur portal leading to dino-time. Alana was randomly doing a one-legged downward dog (as one does in unicorn land) when she face/mouth planted hard off of the cushy tiles and onto the hard ones. There were immediate tears and immediate small shards of white near immediate paaaaaaanic! We thought she'd smashed her front teeth out - but she wouldn't let us look! Finally we had to tear her hands away from her mouth - revealing all teeth intact... which was very confusing. As it turns out, she probably smashed her teeth on her necklace and a small white bead of her necklace shattered instead of her pearly whites (thank goodness!). Phew! It was a close call on a smashed face first (it'll likely come one day right?). Phew.

We cycled down to Hendrik's school after dinner tonight to check out the kindergarten open house, and though we're pretty sure the little miss will be ready and raring to go when it comes time for big kid school, she was shy and reluctant to set foot inside the classroom. Hendrik did some coaxing (Dad too), and we finally got her inside what is currently Hendrik's classroom and will soon be hers. The visit ended well, but the clingy and emotional residue of the day remains. Alana was in tears when I dropped her off at school this morning and then again when I left for an afternoon meeting - and I might be to blame! I gave the kids a reminder this morning about the possibility of one of our fabulous neighbours showing up in the middle of the night and being here at morning wake up instead of mommy and daddy - a though that excites Hendrik ("that means the baby is coming!") but might frighten Alana a little bit. I didn't notice a reaction this morning (post-reminder), but that's the only thing I can think of when it comes to the irregular extra-emotional behaviour we've seen from her today. I suppose it's a fine balance, preparing them for baby and letting them continue with the regularity of everyday life (a balance which is soon to be very UNbalanced!).

I've spent some time recently learning about lexiles with the hopes of getting a good idea of the level at which Hendrik is reading - and with intentions of picking just the right books off of the easy reader and juvenile fiction shelves. I could spend hours and hours and hours in the junior and children's stacks, and have come away with a stack of books that he's devoured (Lego Chima Easy Readers, Pokemon Easy Readers, Mighty Robot, Nate the Great, and a few others) which makes two of us that stay up too late reading. Mornings are becoming late and later - and with an earlier start for a morning math function at Hendrik's school I'm going to try to put my book (Americanah) DOWN by 11:00 10:30 tonight - wish me luck! 

There are no baby developments to report (his arrival as of Monday's doctor's appointment wasn't "imminent"), though seeing as how both kids went to term (+3 days for Alana) I'm thinking/hoping that'll be the case with baby numero 3. Stay tuned!